The tumblr victim complex has started to worry me.
I’m not going to say there’s no discrimination, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, etc because of course there is. But here’s the thing, life is not fair. It was never going to be. I am glad that there are people willing to create blogs that support and uphold all kinds of people but some of these angry blogs that wallow in all the negatives that come with being different are really disturbing.
Someone disagreeing with you, someone questioning you, someone not understanding your choices is not the same as oppression. Someone thinking you are interesting or weird is not them fetishizing or stereotyping you. We can’t know everything about you by sight and not every person you meet is going to know or understand your 75 labels. Give them a break!
Try focusing on the positives. The reasons that you are special or how awesome it is that human DNA is capable of such diversity and fluidity. I promise if you sit around all day pondering all the ways in which you have been screwed over and how horrible everyone is to you on every conceivable level the only person you will hurt is YOU. Most folks are not out to cause you pain and suffering, they are only out to live their own life and achieve their own dreams. If you stop for a minute and talk to them like they have the capacity to understand, you might be surprised how nice that person is and how willing they are to help. Hating people for their skin color, their socio-economic status, their sexuality, their gender or anything else may not be considered an “ist” to you, but it is certainly unhealthy and will make you bitter and angry when your life could be so much more.
Short of it: Everyone has a short life to lead and spending yours shouting at the sky because of how unfair things can be will just waste yours. Find a positive spin and make people wish they were like you instead of wishing you’d go away.
My new shoes- I’m so happy I found them. Shape reminds me of Apple White from EAH, while colours reminds me of Cedar Wood
I was too lazy to get my laptop from my room so I decided to use my mom’s computer and this comes up on the front page and I almost pissed myself
Ever After High Thronecoming Dolls
Source of screen shots: Veni Vidi Dolli on Flickr.Source of photos: http://mattelbrandsmedia.com/videos.php?video=54
I don’t like them at all, and that’s good. my wallet is almost happy :D
Happy Valentine’s Day! These were going to be inked and colored, but I ran out of time, sooo they’re just sketches, sorry! Hopefully the terribleness of the puns makes up for it.
credit: backgrounds from the EAH site (which updated just in time for me to nab them, woo!)
I made a thing. Would you wear thing on a t-shirt?
So… You know the whole dragons kidnap virgin princesses and all that?
What if they kidnapped them to protect them from man?
What if they taught them out to be dragons and how to fight back against knights who only saw them as prizes?
What if dragons aren’t born? Buy rather they’re taught.
All dragons are princesses who learned this and became so much more.
oh… oh, yes. yes. so much yes.
- tumblr: men seriously need to stop objectifying women its disgusting
- tumblr: bUT HERES A PHOTOSET OF TOM HIDDLESTON'S ASS
- tumblr: AND WE'LL USE OUR MATHEMATICAL SKILLS TO WORK OUT THE LENGTH OF BENEDICT CUMBERBATCH'S DICK
- tumblr: AND IF YOU LOOK HARD ENOUGH YOU CAN SEE THE OUTLINE OF JENSEN ACKLES' COCK IN HIS PANTS
- tumblr: but all white cis men are perverts u feel me